1. Take seriously the requirements of the baby often ignored the needs of your baby, let him not be taken seriously because of lost confidence. When he made the phone, with great expectations: “Mom, Milk.” You are not able to meet him outside and told him the specific time: “Back home, Mom to get you, okay?”
2. To the children the opportunity to choose their own
Weekend trips with baby, asked for his opinions, but do not ask: “Where are you going?” But ask: “Do you want to go to the zoo or aquarium?” Give him the choice and make his own choice, will add confidence in ourselves.
3. Do not laugh if your baby wrong
Baby just learning to speak, when the pronunciation is not accurate. Do not laugh at him, nor was deliberately emphasized, another time to teach him. In baby language learning period, your laugh would make him lose confidence and interest in learning the language.
4. Take seriously the questions raised by baby
Baby questions, patience to listen, if you are able to answer, tell him. Let him know that any person has failed to do, to dispel his fear of other people’s psychology, thus increasing self-confidence.
5. To discuss the tone of your baby with the best of its ability to do things
For example, “the newspaper show it mother, okay?” Let the children know that people need is the best way to improve his self-confidence.
6. For the baby room for a display of works
Let your baby at home, posted the most eye-catching wall for his graffiti; in the closet for the baby to be a display rack, display of his small production. Honor the best children’s self-confidence inspire.
7. A baby of their own territory
Baby in a room, no conditions can give part of his room, so he had a free play, unfettered small world. Because they have their own “territory” and let his heart full of pride, which would allow him added to confidence.
8. His tolerance is to develop self-confidence of the soil baby
Do not always because the child in the room or on your desktop mess blame the baby, but teach him to pack his toys scattered, and do with him.
9. Do not take more children, and others
Not baby said: “The sister has been will count, and you do not, you stupid!” Even if he is really worse than other children. Always take more than his children and his strong compared to most children’s self-confidence defeat.
10. Let your baby at home occasionally Dangdang
Take baby to the supermarket, to be paid over to him hands him to the cashier. He also will not be afterwards, but to take the baby to the supermarket, the payment to be handed in his hands and let him to the cashier. He also will not be afterwards, but at least let him know that money can buy. Gradually allow the child to master the pocket money, let him take charge, will increase the confidence of his life.
11. Let your baby choose their own clothes
Buy baby clothes, let the children pick the color and style. Perhaps he chose the color you do not like, but do not deny his eyes. Children’s views to be respected is the beginning of his self-confidence.
12. And the children watching his favorite cartoon
And the children watching his favorite cartoon, and his discussion of favorite characters and lines, expressed interest in his point of view. Equality, coexistence and interaction are the ladder to his self-confidence.
13. Let the baby do what is possible
Let your baby a small independent cleaning their socks, handkerchief, even wash dirty. Children’s self-confidence from you every little thing in his recognition.
14. To encourage the baby show strengths
When the baby shows reciting poetry, telling stories and singing, for he beat time, that should be and. He dared to calmly perform, exercise is exercise his self-confidence.
15. Let your baby play more and peers
Let your baby close to young children, to encourage him and free association of people of all ages. In fact, his social skills training is to develop his self-confidence.
16. To help your baby develop a detailed plan, and reminded him to implement the
Such as help baby develop practicing plans to develop plans in consultation with his time. Execution time to remind him: “Baby, we now practicing, right?” Let him develop the habit of doing things according to plan. Work well-thought-life to full of confidence.
17. Baby to play Coke bottles, shoe boxes and other waste, not to arbitrarily stop him
Children like to explore what interested him, you stop him, and also dampened the confidence of his exploration.
18. Children playing the game, encountered difficulties, let the children themselves
Children to go on puzzle difficulty to encourage the children to think of ways to resolve these difficulties. Really can not think of a solution, you can side pointing. Let him self-confidence to overcome difficulties doubled.
19. When the child has time to progress in the specific recognition
With children, often find commendable the specific reasons for the language to encourage him with praise, but do not empty to praise the child. Can say: “Baby know urine, and there is progress in citizenship.” Do not say: “Baby You’re OK” empty to praise the child. Can say: “Baby know urine, and there is progress in citizenship.” Do not say: “Baby you’re smart, a good mother like you.” Specific praise for his self-confidence and arrogance makes him the empty praise.
20. Attention to their child’s commitment
Did not want to take him to McDonald’s, but casually promised him, promised not to be realized. Your dishonesty so that he lost confidence, lost trust in you.
21. To help your baby to play the positive aspects of personality, making him a character who has
Baby is impatient, his work rate on exercise; is Chronic, on the exercise of his rational article. Forced him to change his mettle will make you lose confidence in him makes him lose confidence.
22. Teach a child, he recognized his own appearance
Told him that although he was not such as big eyes, small eyes, very nice as long as God. Many non-confidence often comes from non-recognition of their appearance.
23. To the children the books and materials in support of his own dreams to do dry
Let children recognize their talents and abilities, he can be more confident.
24. As far as possible away from reliance on the baby in life
Kindergarten on time, so that alarm clock to wake him for not calling my mother again and again. Children can take care of themselves can live without dependence upon the situation in confidence.
25. Let your baby learn to make a sightseeing tour from childhood
When traveling with a baby more than him about the encounter animals, plants, geography, allusions and other knowledge. Informed to confidently doubled.
26. Not to punish child abuse is not only the fault of abuse against the child’s self-confidence, but also allow the child to reverse psychology.
27. Baby suffered setbacks, with a moderate tone of the experience with him, next time there will not be the same error.
Re-ignite his confidence, particularly important.
28. Parents to follow reasonable standards of conduct, respectable people do
Parents are not respected in society, the most damage children’s self-confidence.