Ways of the world is accumulated in our daily lives, conventional rules of conduct, a social knowledge of the area. Knowledge of most of these people from different social communication, but also from social conflict and social development.
Professional knowledge and skills in the circumstances, the ways of the world can help us and other personal ease the tension between, but also easier to make other people feel that with our contacts with the appropriate sense of pleasure. Out for enumerated here may be able to use each of us the daily life of the 18 ways of the world, and these ways of the world often ignored by many young people.
1, if not great, we are often the attitude and tone can be used to ask to speak with them, because in vain, many practical mentor often come from humble life and work.
2, in the eating occasion do take the initiative to order those who do not please the master and guest of honor for a la carte, because it is not usually honorable thing to do, but please note that asked for their preferences, rather than simply point your favorite things . But this requires research menu usually has accumulated a la carte experience.
3, always find friends, partners and colleagues (even kids) deserves recognition, attention Oh, even if the boss you need to be sure, but as far as possible in private, but friends and also for the general public should be commended.
4, by others for their looks, things, character praised, do not show a natural look, do not pretend to deny that the right way to express appreciation, especially for the recognition and support of friends.
5, learn to use the notes, including promissory note, lead article, written request for leave, application letter, if you are actively using these notes will make other people feel you are very standard, and if you know how to ask other people to do so, you and the future better and they are founded to deal with them. Allow others to write a note with admiration.
6, even if you are not staff, friends or colleagues when guests take the initiative to open pour, make great friends and colleagues face, but also make the guests feel that your friends and colleagues prestigious. This will make your friends and colleagues in particular, thank you gesture.
7, although you think you are novice or relatively low status of the person, but you have to dare to hesitate to ask, should take the initiative to ask others to do the needs, rather than other leaders or senior colleague show you the pro and, because they show that often requires special effort.
8, I remember a time when others are not very warm seat to help answer and record calls, receive mail, transmit information, the team of colleagues and students, remind them of the importance of some of you know the schedule.
9, in consultation with the suggestion of others before entering someone’s room, watching other people’s bookshelves, or indoor items, in the case of consent by the other people just use someone else’s computer, sitting in someone else’s private seat, but usually do not flip someone else notebook.
10, need to invite others to attend, if unable to attend should notify, late of something to point at the right time to inform the owner, to be explained later, without the invitation of a friend with prior notice to the owner.
11, no request for a gift to others, receive the gifts of others or not like to express gratitude to the giver will be very much, because your reaction is not suitable for transfer to a gift given to another and, particularly, to retain the original gift those symbols and signs are not polite to look.
12, present in more than one occasion, take the initiative to introduce their friends to others, or take the initiative in the go-between between friends, you know.
13, the status of friends in different occasions, have to keep smiling, attentive to those within the next call, and not be noticed, perhaps a little inferiority complex of a friend, In social life for the disadvantaged to help other people will be particularly grateful . In other social occasions, for the lower social status, especially in the life of you can not meet the conditions and living habits, we should restrain ourselves want to show the discomfort and negative expressions. As far as possible take the initiative to greet the lower social status.
14, there are good things to eat alone when not to eat food, take the initiative to tell them the good news you know, when there is a good thing can think of other people.
15, some wrong things, or you find other things wrong, do not use emotional means to criticize others, with particular attention to the things to evaluate, to avoid assessment of someone else’s personality, character and family upbringing. A solution when criticism, even constructive criticism. Do not just criticize, criticize certainly not forget the strengths of others. If criticism can be more humorous, often even less negative effects. The embarrassment of being criticized or when the self-deprecating humor can be, but also improve the exchange of constructive.
16, heroes do not eat the immediate loss. But in addition many cases, if the battle over the issue, and do not continue to fuel, to calm down, multi-material collection of some data points and would like to know better to say.
17, you can not have full advantage of the time, use the “fight” and “as far as possible,” the tone of this invitation to others to answer, promise to fulfill to the fullest extent.
18, although business is business, but we must try to not talk about return to first do something for others, so to win than others in the psychological sense of superiority claims. One’s social status is another of his sense of social debt owed to the sum.